I have alot to talk about... are you ready?

I have never heard or read a statement so true...
"Never make someone a priority when your just and option." -Unknown

I posted this same thing on my Facebook and realized that I need to take my own advice the advice of someone that had more knowledge or wisdom to even say or write such a statement. You are always more wiser when you have been through something... I do notice that I tend to do that. I make people a priority over my own happiness, self worth and my own sound judgement to make them happy and notice when it comes to my happiness how many and who would do the same for me. Not that when you do things you are looking for gratification but you are looking for appreciation and if you needed someone they would want to do the same for you. Am I wrong in thinking that. But when you put that person above all, above common sense, or your own happiness, and your own morals or goodness forbid your own soul... You have lost yourself long time ago and when and if you will ever be found. I guess when the let you know you aren't as high on the totum pole as you thought you were.

I was listening to the radio this morning and this lady wrote in and her boyfriend of 3 years and he told her he would fully commit to getting married if only she would have a 3some... Now, she wrote this letter to the radio station looking advice... WHY would you need advice on this situation unless you don't know your worth... or you have this person on such a petistol and you don't think highly of yourself. Love does not put you in a situation that would morally impair you or conflict with your judgement of what you wouldn't do on your own. That person is selfish... My opinion.

Subject #2

Facebook friending...Or should I say friending other peoples friends that you don't know....What are your thoughts... Meaning someone going through your friends list or seeing those suggesting of "people you may know" on the side of your computer but you don't know them at all do you think that's a problem... I have been talking with my cousins and close friends (females) as this mainly pertains to the safety of females. There was someone on my friends list that befriended my sister (this person does not know my sister at all). I thought that was really weird and unsafe in general. We are so fast to "be friends" and give people access to us with out knowledge of who this person is, what their motive is, or who they are as a person... Just because that person is on your friendlist does not mean that person is "COOL" that may just be an acquaintence but not someone you actually KNOW...and if they befriend you it's ok... No it's not ok. In this situation, my sister does not know some very important details about this person and this person should not have tried to befriend my sister and she doesn't even know him. People get killed from meeting people on line, MySpace and Craigslist has had situations where people were killed. Now, I have to evaluate who has access to my friends as I am over protective of my family and especially females. I have asked people if I over reacted about this and they said no, because it is true... If you don't know someone would you open an email... No you wouldn't (I would hope not) because in the IT privacy/Security world you don't open emails of people you don't know because that email could have a virus... the same with people.. you don't just "friend" anyone if you don't know them or know of them personally or through someone, know their character or know someone that knows them to validate if they are ok... or not to let them in your world, your pictures and your everyday life. Be careful who you make your friends. (listening to my own advice) I just want everyone to be aware and make sure you protect yourself because you never know what someones motive/intentions are.


That's pretty much it... I want you all to be safe and love yourself enough to not let anyone take advantage of you...

~Peace and Love